lfor the last 2-3 weeks my 4 yr old who is in PRE-KINDERGARDEN only mind you has came home frm school very upset everyday so i knew immediatly something was not right. i ask my daughter what was wrong and she siad she was scared to go to school but yet she loves it with a passion so much she sits next to her jacket and book bag untill its time to leave. well anyway i finally took her for some ice cream and got her to open up to me lil by lil. and what she siad was that there is 2 boys ( ) in her class that keep saying these specific things to her everyday over and over. the 2 boys names or anythony and nicholas. well this is what they repeat to my daughter atleast 3-4 times a day everyday that got her so shook up.

anthony- you have a big fat a$$, can i kiss it

nicholas- i have a big knife, a real one and if you dont love me anymore i am going to kill you with my knife my daddy gave me..


thats a double whoa. i right away threw out my ice cream and took hers to go and went home and spoke with my wife.. then just today i went up to the school and spoke with the princable and this is what i was told.

" well im sorry to hear that but i assure you alexus ( my daughter ) is safe hear and i will see the boys get punished but its against the law for me to disclose to you what punishment they gotten.. and please dont be worried as this kind of thing rarely happens.)

??????????? im lost what kind of thing rarely happens ???????????

and this coming from the same princable that did not punish a teacher who took another 4 yr old lil girl to the bathroom with some other kids and left back to class leaving the 4 yr old lil girl in the bathroom scared and crying for 1 hour and 20 minutes untill someone walking by heard her crying from the door...

i highly think its time to change schools but the only other school that is near by is over crowded..


this whole thing has me very upset and very angry as i honestly dont feel anything will be done about this..



((((( baby girl, your way too young to be bringing this kinda drama home to daddy now ))))) your going give daddy a heart attack at 28 yrs old..)))))

If you don't get satisfaction (the boys and their parents being informed/counseled), tell the Principal that you intend to take the issue higher.

Don't let it ride.

That is some serious **** there. I wouldn't stop until you get the satasfaction you're after(within reason). That'* outrageous. I mean, sure they're four, but someone needs to educate those kids that they can NOT be saying that kinda stuff... Hard to do when they are that close to the point of no return. Makes me wonder what kinda parents those boys have... if any...

Y'know.....newspapers eat this stuff up like candy....just thought I'd toss that idea out

Good point. Leverage for lack of action by the school... Now make something happen. That is... if you are willing to let your daughter get interviewed. They'll probably want to so they can show how much it upset her.

Maybe there is a reason the other school is overcrowded and the school board needs it brought to their attention. Try going to a school board meeting. I know I have had a "sidebar" with school board members in the past. That was in a smaller school system though.

from the schools perspective, they cant tell you what punishment has been doled out.

but can you not ask to be able to speak to the other kids parents? go straight to the source, and not start threatening the already underfunded school with more bad publicity?

Maybe it'* underfunded because of incompitent staff.... Rather than fixing the system, they punish the kids. It'* cheaper and easier that way.

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nah man, not this one, im not going to let this ride.
something needs to be done even if its only counseling for the 2 boys i want something to be done or they will just grow with stronger words and threats as they get older and think its a.o.k
not in my world it aint.. i'll admit that i grew up in the street'* but my grandmother whooped my a$$ straight and made sure i had respect for every and anyone i meet.

i will give it a day or two then i will ask the school if the kids parents were contacted and something was done but i highly doubt it..

i think i will contact the local new station AFTER and only AFTER i get no response or a bad one from the school.


on a side note-- in another school here in allentown pa there was an incident about several months ago where a 5 yr old lil girl was raped by a 8th grader in that same school in the bathroom and the girl went home and told her parents what happened and when the parents went up to school they were told

( we are sorry but its not our responsibilty to contact the police or parents of an issue as its the parents and only the parents responsibilty to report something like this as the school has alot of other concerns and that will raise a legal issue..

wtf... are you kidding me..... i,ll find the article and start anothe seperat post so this dont go off topic...