I would just like to rant a bit about immature people.

There are 2 incidents in particular. The first, I posted a thread on a local forum of a license plate that was available in NY. It had the name of another member'* mother that everyone joked about and I thought it was humorous that it fit and was available. I posted it with those pretenses and with the intentions of posting a bunch of others I had found available, but ran out of time for that. Well, the kid flipped over it (apparently there is only a select group of people who can make those jokes and it appears to be everyone but myself) and went off on me and then dragged allison into it attacking her character. Unfortunately I wasn't home to respond to it, but allison did then a couple others, including her ex just went off on her. For this I was banned for 5 days as well as the other kid cause he threatened me.

This other kid is 18, and I've talked with him before. But to go all out on the post like that when it could have been easily solved with a PM or phone call (he had my number) and ask me to remove it. Instead he decided to blow it up, drag others into it, and just make it a huge mess. We believe that her ex egged him on a bit, but not 100% sure of that. It was just an immature thing to do, especially since this is the first time he has been upset with a joke like this, and this was probably the cleanest joke possible.

The second incident involved another forum where one of the girls on the forum'* ex posted a photoshopped private picture of her with some derogatory remarks. he posted it on all the forums she and him are both part of and basically caused her life to be a living hell last night. he did this just because he wanted to hurt her cause she has started seeing another guy whom he dislikes. He managed to get himself personnally banned from most of the places he posted it on, as well as one of the mods on that forum being removed for aiding in it. This kid is supposed to be 21 years old, but acts like he is 15. Everyone ripped him apart on the forums for doing it and he wonders why people don't like him. He'* from money and has never had to deal with things cause money bought his way out of it.

I just hate immature kids who do not know how to deal with their issue in an adult manner when they are supposed to be an adult. Thankfully I could care less about the forum I got banned from and I have been helping the girl deal with things, along with several of her other good friends on the forum, so she is getting by. The only thing I can liken it to, based on what she had told me during and after the whole order is e-rape, if I can coin the term (assuming it hasn't been already) She used the same terminology that women of the actual event would use for it. I am hoping that this doesn't have as long lasting of effects, but I guess time will tell. She seemed better then I talked with her earlier. I might see if allison can talk to her later when she is out of work.

Ok, I am done with my rant. I'll am confronting both of these immature individuals tonight and will have Rob post back if something should go down (if they hit first, then it'* on.) Hopefully some sort of resolution can be made without violence, but with the maturity level shown by them so far, who knows.

That sucks. Unfortunately, maturity doesn't come automatically with age. I was scared my ex was going to try crap like that with me when we split up. He knew that the BC guys would not allow anything to happen so he has not bothered me here but he has on another site. I just ignore him now. There is a cool song called Bottle Action and the words fit how I feel- "I don't fight, I don't argue, I just hit that bitch with a bottle. Got problems? I'll solve them, I just hit that bitch with a bottle"

That pretty much sums it up. I don't start fights but I don't walk away from one either!! My parents raised me like that. If you swing make sure it is a good one cuz it might be the only one you get

I would bet your friend allison has grounds for a lawsuit against her ex for posting those pics on the internet, especially since they were photoshopped, and if he has money she should hurt him in the wallet. Chances are those guys will just back down when you confront them as they have no monitor to hide behind. Good Luck JF..
Debbie

Can't say I hold much respect for either one. I'd look into the lawsuit prior to the assbeating. As stated prior to this. Hurt them in the pocket book. Then hurt them on the street. Also, as stated, they will probably not be willing to fight. Lawsuit, then put the hurt on if it comes to that.

First off, it is not allison, but another girl on that forum. I was just going to have allison talk to her being a female and all.

And i know I have a little fault for the original post, but you need to understand that forum picks on eachother a lot and similar posts are not uncommon, nor is drama.

I always thought high school drama would end when high school ended. It seems you found out just like me, there will always be people starting drama, you just have to learn to brush the haters off. Don't let it get you down, tell them to **** off.