well...She left me.
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well...She left me.
My girl finnaly confessed to me today that she just isnt physically attracted to me anymore. I dont know what to do. I am at a loss for words. Im hurt. I dont want to be here anymore. I cant stand the pain of this crap!!!! I love her with all i got. I have loved her with all of me and more since day 1. I .....forget it.
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Was she a "hottie"?
One cannot expect them to stick around. How long were you with her?
The fat and/or ugly women seldom pull this stunt. They may look like dogs but they are faithful as dogs also.
It is easy to fall in love with something that looks good. I am assuming your lady was beautiful cause you seem upset by this.
BUT you should remain friends so that the other hotties will notice and you can line up another one...
BOY it is a good thing I am not a psychologist. :?
One cannot expect them to stick around. How long were you with her?
The fat and/or ugly women seldom pull this stunt. They may look like dogs but they are faithful as dogs also.
It is easy to fall in love with something that looks good. I am assuming your lady was beautiful cause you seem upset by this.
BUT you should remain friends so that the other hotties will notice and you can line up another one...
BOY it is a good thing I am not a psychologist. :?
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Chevy, since I don't know you or your situation it'* hard to give any sort of advice. In most close relationships with the situation you've stated, the signs are usually there way before it comes to this point. Are you still able to talk to her and see where you both went off track, in other words is it deeper then what you have expressed here? Was she attracted to you once and your appearance has changed? The only adivce I can give you at the moment is, talk to her and see what the real problem is and then you both can decide whether it'* really time to move on.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It'* what'* inside that counts for alot also. Keep that in mind. People'* personality to me counts for a lot.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It'* what'* inside that counts for alot also. Keep that in mind. People'* personality to me counts for a lot.
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She isnt the hottest one out there. there are certainly better ones, but we had a connection that I cant have with anyone else. We were together for a year the 9th of this month. Go to my myspace. There should be a pic of her there.
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Hang in there, bud. Not all hope is lost. She may just need some time, and come back after a break. Or, you'll find someone else.
And we're pretty good about listening to people'* vents and rants here. If you gotta "talk" about it, we gots lots of ears.....
And we're pretty good about listening to people'* vents and rants here. If you gotta "talk" about it, we gots lots of ears.....
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Originally Posted by MOS95B
Hang in there, bud. Not all hope is lost. She may just need some time, and come back after a break. Or, you'll find someone else.
And we're pretty good about listening to people'* vents and rants here. If you gotta "talk" about it, we gots lots of ears.....
And we're pretty good about listening to people'* vents and rants here. If you gotta "talk" about it, we gots lots of ears.....
I find it a little strange that a woman would dump a guy based on physical attraction. How many hot women do we see with the goofiest guys on the planet?
The profile phot of chevyboy looks like a normal guy. We cannot see the G/F cause the rest of the myspace is set private.
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bud i think we have all been there but you know it is kinda like me and my ex. if you have been around for a while I am sure you know the details but you know she is now married and happy. I got a great gf now and well life goes on. as cliche as that sounds it is true. The quote "this too will pass" comes to mind. hang in there if you need an ear i got 2 lol
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Keep your chin up and things will work themselves out. Life sucks..then you work on your car.
Keep your chin up and things will work themselves out. Life sucks..then you work on your car.