the numbers on the back of the key fobs
 

some one please tell me i see these numbers on the back of the remotes for my car and i know that it means remote 1 and remote 2 but i guess what i really want to know is if i have remote 1 and my girlfriend has remote 2 does the settings in the car change depending on what remote opens the car. when i say settings i mean the things that are programmed in driver settings on the 00-05 bonne.

Yes, the keytags each can be programmed for the DIC settings.