Skip the dentist now, head to emergency, you need some serious drugs now. You need to get that drained, and then my friend you will have to suck it up and go to the dentist. Sorry sweetie, but that is what is going to happen anyway. Hey think about this, when our daughter was one and a half, she fell on her grandparents ceramic floor and cracked her two brand new front teeth that were in, we didn't know it at the time. So anyway, when she was three, the teeth basically rotted and she developed an absess, which was really bad. And at three years of age, she had to have her two front teeth pulled, which she did, and she didn't even cry, not one bit. So if a three year old little girl can do it, I think a big boy like you can do it too.