I know where this is coming from. We've had complaints about the style of posting, and that'* not personal. Some comments were pretty far south. You have to remember that we run a clean board here, and there are some pretty young members. We prefer not to offend anyone if we can help it, and that'* one of the things our members value.
You'll find a higher level of maturity and respect on this forum than just about any other forum you go to. So the things you normally see flying around other places may not cut it here.
The owner of this site set a high standard, and we do our best to achieve it.
Does that mean you're a bastard? No, it just means you're not accustomed to the way this forum operates. Call it 'growing pains'