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Get your head out of your behind Looks have nothing to do with it. IF it does with you (impatient99) then you are superficial and will never have a "real" relationship. You have to remember that beauty fades and you will need to have someone that is capable of keeping you company. You sound like you are young and you definately have a lot to learn. I have never dated a guy based on looks. I've dated some good looking men but I like men that make me laugh, have a playful nature, and can be strong if I need a shoulder to cry on. I would never just date someone because they were hot. That leads no where.

As for chevyboy- Sorry to hear she broke your heart. It sucks but it will get better. Dont do anything stupid. No one is worth giving up your precious life for. If it is meant to be she will return. If she doesn't return you will find someone better. Keep the faith my friend!!

My girl and I fell upon hard times recently, it was just our 3 year anniversary about 5 days ago. Our relationship got kind of sucky the past year, but we decided to stick it out and try and make it better rather than give up. I was heartbroken when she told me she wanted to break up...I didn't eat for 5 days (literally, at all) and was pretty depressed. Luckily she still loves me enough to give our relationship a chance to get better.

But I know how you feel, and I'm really sorry about that. It sucks to have it end when you're still so into it.

[Edit: Sad attempt to cheer ya up removed]

You guys dont even know, I mean you do, but its just my way of starting or ccontinuing a conversation, She has left me before do to A. The wreck I was in made things unstable for both of us. And the second time was because we couldnt see eachother as often as we liked because of our families. And now that things are legit and we were doing just fine..."I realized that I am not physically attracted to you anymore. I mean, yeah your hot, but when i kissed you good-bye yesterday, i diddnt feel the butterflies or any emotions anymore. i love you Eric, Im just not sexually or physically attracted to you any more.. Ill always love you. Its just that i need nore than emotion right now. i need the physical attraction as well Eric."

"Well...I tried Jaye. I gave you all I could, I loved you with all my heart and did all I could. I love you. i have told you in the past that I will always be here for you as your man or as your friend. But froom what you have said, I dont think I will be your man again because you dont want me to. Goodbye Jayelynn." Click.

That was a brief summary of our phone call.

That'* rough man. Hang in there. My girlfriend told me kind of the same thing, but she wasn't willing to give up on our relationship.

You're a good person, and I know how you feel. You've dedicated your heart to this girl and the only thing that can help is some time. You will get over it and you will find someone else, it will just take a while for you to realize this.

Things will get better, I promise you. Yes, it sucks right now, but as time goes on, it will get better. I've been there, I know what'* it'* like to be on not only your end of this, but hers also. It'* good to talk about it all whether it be with her, your friends, or us. It helps to not keep everything inside. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me.

The story of my life.

Thanks Pearl. Im just, not to sound emo psyco but honrstly, i just want to die. I turned down UTI for her because she said she wanted to move out of her house and move in with me. I changed my whole life for her. She told me sunday that she was not happy with the way my priorities were. That she diddnr like being first. So i started to rearrange myself and now this. I have nothing here to look forward to. Absolutely nothing!!!!!! I have no reason to be here anymore. She was everything. I gave her all she wanted. money, love, affection, everything man!!!! I just gave her $300 yesterday!!!! Can i feel anymore used?!?!?!?!?! I just wanna die. people are lucky im still in school right now.

You need to find things to do to help keep her off your mind. Sitting home saulking about it is not good. It will just get you more depressed. Go out and do things with your friends, like I said, just stay busy. It'll be okay. I can totally understand that you feel used and whatnot. I have a question for you. Did it ever come across your mind that there might be more to it that she says there is? I'm not trying to bum you out or anything but I'm a girl, and I did the same thing one time a few years back and it wasn't all about the attraction not being there anymore. I found someone new that I had more fun with and whatnot. I dunno, not saying thats what she has done, but it could be a possibility. Dont beat your self up over it, it'* probably not your fault. It could just be personal issues with herself, and she'* using the other things as an excuse as a way out. JMO. :?