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My girlfriends son is a great kid when he is sleeping....
I don't even know where to start...
Ok I was a problem child yeah there ya go smoke that I'll admit it btu my oblems didn't start till I was somewhere near 12. This kid HOLYS&&T he has me spinning circles as to what now. She is starting to withdraw from everyday living with him and placing him isnt the answer (as it wouldn't teach her how to deal with him).
He has been late or absent 3/4'* of the school year because he doesnt feel like going and If you push the subject oh man he flips, when he does he'* like a 40yr old drunk in a bad mood. He goes about trashing the house making a mess and really doesn't care I feared buying her a newer car to get around in you should see her Neon. He gets mad at really nothing normal everyday crap and he gets not mad but pissed. Walks around cussing every word in the book and my god the one i hate the N word, It'* almost as if he has no coping skills no wait he doesn't. Some of this can be linked to where mom was b4 me but daym its been over a year she'* been on her own ad he seems to be getting worse.
We have talked and talked to the point like i said she is losing touch, Shrinks Truant Offices, school therapists. nothing seems to work, Yesterday he was almost on time 2 minutes late for school the day before ontime today where is he home he didnt feel like going.... I called the truant officer 3 times thins morning (Noshow) I sent mom out for the day he'* in his room. #1 his tantrums do not bother me but I can't do the things he needs to have done cause I'm not his father. and if i was he wouldnt have turned out like this I guarantee that. Even my son says Dad you would never let me behave like that He knows.
Her son is a good kid and I wont take away from that but good only lasts 2 or 3 minutes every 4 or 5 hours.. or as long as your not talking to him or asking him to maybe clean up after himself..
I'm going to be recommending Medicating him so he can be knocked off what ever it is he'* standing on, and mom can start some discipline. Some badly needed Discipline and lay out the law because with the baby on the way I'm looking at moving her in but its not going to happen untill her son is manageable or sorry to say it GONE.
And if she doesn't stick to the programs laid out I will be raising the baby with out her as her son and his behavior would be considered a rick to the Baby'* welfare. She knows this but I can't do it only give her options and support her. Also were looking into an open custody program I might be able to squeeze him in there all he needs is some heavy duty structure to snap him out of it (I hope)
well thats it for now i just need to get it off my chest before i got told to **** OFF by a 9 yr old and took off the belt...
thanks for reading
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