I wonder.. what makes a man sexy? Is it lips (thinking of Brad Pitt), accent (my English men heartthrobs), rough and toughness (Jason Statham), what IS it exactly? Recently grown attached to Simon off of American Idol makes me think what in heck am I attracted to?? What is it that draws us in? I think sometimes to when Im walkin in the store and I smell Gravity cologne.. I just kinda zone and my body 'gravitates' lol to the target. I cant say what draws us women in.. its different not only between girl'* idea of sexy but each girls' guys. What I can say is when a girl gets hooked on a guy I know what keeps her. Truewildman for example. I can say.. okay yes I did get with him purely out of sexual frustration and attraction. But what kept me? All the abuse that I have suffered in my past--he has kissed the tears away. All the hard times that we all go through in daily life-- he is always there for me. We are committed to each other in tell death do us part-- and beyond. When things get rough even in our relationship-- we dont think "oh well, we tried", and move on carrying our baggage. We work it out, because it is forever in our minds. And that kind of security.. that kind of bond... well it stands the test of time. We are two partners moving through life and supporting each other in every way. Our son I would say is blessed. I wont say he will have everything we never had because materially speaking I had more when I was a child-- every toy I could dream of. But the one thing he will have that I and James didn't are two committed parents in love with each other and love for our son and support through anything he comes to in his life. That is all I wish for him-- love. Geez, Im rambling.. Well I wish you all the very best.