While you make some valid points, im not yet ready to tell my GF.
Long distance relationships usually dont work out, but if I could get the chance to meet her and see how we are in person, things might just go for the better or for the worse. I wont know until I reach that point.
Right now my heart is telling me to go, but im not emotionally, or mentaly ready to take that step. There are some things I have to think about and it could get very complicated for everyone involved.
If I tell her too soon, that could also be a bad thing, but if I tell her when im emotionally and mentaly ready, I feel it will go a bit smoother.
I just would like to make clear that even if I had not met this person online, I still would feel the same and go about things the same as I am. Its just that we happened to chat one night and here I am 3 weeks later posting about it to my BC family lol.
I know that some here wont agree with me, but im an adult and I feel that I am making the right decisions for the time being given my current situation. Theres allot of different equations that I have to think about before making this a final thing. I hope those that who oppose will understand that each individual situation is different, and I think im going about it level headed and for the moment, the best way that I can