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Old 09-25-2005, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Garb
you guys are great...

now for

i took her back... I told her its her last chance... she started calling about wouldnt stop untill I talked to her... I cant just throw two years down the drain. I told her she stops shotting down everything I say or im gone... wish me luck guys :?
wait wait wait...stop the bus...

how could u take her back if u got dumped???

i WISH i could do that
Old 09-25-2005, 05:38 PM
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Okay, first off, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING??? Why are to taking her back after she dumped you?? She clearly needs to get her head on straight. What you need to do is break up with her (I know you love her and all), and let her realize what she is missing!! Sometimes in order for people to wake up and smell the coffee is for them not to have the coffee for a while I speak from experience on this.

Please dump her, before you start to really hate each other. I know it is hard to think about life without her, but she does not know what she wants, and you can not be dragged into her little messed up world. She needs to see thinks from your point of view, and if you love her, and she truly loves you, things will work out in the end. But for right now, you need to let her go.
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Originally Posted by PontiacMom
Okay, first off, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING??? Why are to taking her back after she dumped you?? She clearly needs to get her head on straight. What you need to do is break up with her (I know you love her and all), and let her realize what she is missing!! Sometimes in order for people to wake up and smell the coffee is for them not to have the coffee for a while I speak from experience on this.

Please dump her, before you start to really hate each other. I know it is hard to think about life without her, but she does not know what she wants, and you can not be dragged into her little messed up world. She needs to see thinks from your point of view, and if you love her, and she truly loves you, things will work out in the end. But for right now, you need to let her go.

*agrees*
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Originally Posted by theJMFC
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I know this isn't really a topic another girl can help you with but hey, I thought I'd give it a shot.
I have to disagree. Another girl can make it all better really quick like!

Seriously, just quick find a suitable replacement. It'll be like she never left, just... changed. Hopefully for the better. Good luck.
I meant I didn't know if I could give better advice than male to male advice! Not as in here I am take me! TAKEN already!!! LOL And BTW... don't tell him he should find a quick replacement. He'* been with her for more than a year... you can't just replace someone like that! If he did that would mean she never meant anything to him and neither would the next girl. That'* just so very wrong! I'll shut my mouth for now tho... this is one touchy topic!!!
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Originally Posted by PontiacMom
Okay, first off, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING??? Why are to taking her back after she dumped you?? She clearly needs to get her head on straight. What you need to do is break up with her (I know you love her and all), and let her realize what she is missing!! Sometimes in order for people to wake up and smell the coffee is for them not to have the coffee for a while I speak from experience on this.

Please dump her, before you start to really hate each other. I know it is hard to think about life without her, but she does not know what she wants, and you can not be dragged into her little messed up world. She needs to see thinks from your point of view, and if you love her, and she truly loves you, things will work out in the end. But for right now, you need to let her go.
I agree with this to an extent. For one, it'* good advice if that'* what YOU want to do. Second, only do it if you think things won't work themselves out the right way while you're going out. But alos don't let yourself get hurt over and over it'* just not worth it. Good luck seriously, this part of life sucks!!! :(
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Originally Posted by Melissa
Originally Posted by theJMFC
Originally Posted by Melissa
I know this isn't really a topic another girl can help you with but hey, I thought I'd give it a shot.
I have to disagree. Another girl can make it all better really quick like!

Seriously, just quick find a suitable replacement. It'll be like she never left, just... changed. Hopefully for the better. Good luck.
I meant I didn't know if I could give better advice than male to male advice! Not as in here I am take me! TAKEN already!!! LOL And BTW... don't tell him he should find a quick replacement. He'* been with her for more than a year... you can't just replace someone like that! If he did that would mean she never meant anything to him and neither would the next girl. That'* just so very wrong! I'll shut my mouth for now tho... this is one touchy topic!!!
I agree with Melissa, this is a very touchy topic. It'* your heart dude, only you know what'* in it and what it can take. If you feel you guys can work it out more power to you, if you decide to chase other skirt then go get 'em cowboy.
All I'll say is with time and money you can make whatever you want out of you car. Women aren't like that, you can only work together to help each other. It takes time communication and compromise on both parts to make any relationship work and then hopefully can find want you're looking for in each other.
Keep us posted. We're all pulling for, keep your stick on the ice.
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Originally Posted by harofreak00
Originally Posted by dbeast420
Originally Posted by harofreak00
i feel for ya
you feel for me...

at least urs was a gradual dismissal...mine was a shocker

You get dumped????
uh huh... its posted around here somewhere...

girls are made to tease and f*** with hearts

edit...its alright...still got my car
Is that right?!?! Thanks... you guys are just sooooo sweet! :(
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Originally Posted by Melissa
Originally Posted by harofreak00
Originally Posted by dbeast420
Originally Posted by harofreak00
i feel for ya
you feel for me...

at least urs was a gradual dismissal...mine was a shocker

You get dumped????
uh huh... its posted around here somewhere...

girls are made to tease and f*** with hearts

edit...its alright...still got my car
Is that right?!?! Thanks... you guys are just sooooo sweet! :(
Don't worry, not all of us think that way. Alright, so maybe we all do at one point or another. But then we settle down, get married, and get whipped.
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Huh, ok then. Find a shy cute one and roll with it bro! What was the reason for dumpage though?
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Originally Posted by Jack
Originally Posted by Melissa
Originally Posted by harofreak00
Originally Posted by dbeast420
Originally Posted by harofreak00
i feel for ya
you feel for me...

at least urs was a gradual dismissal...mine was a shocker

You get dumped????
uh huh... its posted around here somewhere...

girls are made to tease and f*** with hearts

edit...its alright...still got my car
Is that right?!?! Thanks... you guys are just sooooo sweet! :(
Don't worry, not all of us think that way. Alright, so maybe we all do at one point or another. But then we settle down, get married, and get whipped.
Admit it Jack, you guys are whipped long before you're married!!! Chad (my bf) will disagrere with me on that one when he reads this, I'm positive. I always pick on him about it! I guess it'* all ok as long as you know when to bail if things get too bumpy.


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