whoa now...back off BumperCar and all you women bashers. I know it'* easier to knock the female race instead of trying to face your own inadequancies Cool ...but enough is enough.
But, I noticed the though seems to be that she was/is upset because she didn't want her ex to know she was in the hospital
First, while that still doesn't really make sense, I guess you could make an argument for privacy.
Second, if you read his post, he NEVER said he was going to tell the ex that she was in the hospital, he just wanted her number to call her dad for the info.
Last, regardless of what would have been said, or who would have found out, should the important thing be that he went through the trouble of trying to get a hold of her to see how she was?
That'* why some men stop trying, a lot (not all) of women point out the negative and never recognize the positive. (end rant)