Okay, hopefully this turns out coherent, what with all the painkillers for me being sick and all....
Sara, and everyone else griping about past breakups...i discovered through too much experience that the best revenge for an ex who treats you like **** is to do well. And then feel free to rub their noses in it
I was getting pretty jaded about guys, but I think I found the male version of me, waiting to see if this actually works out or if I **** myself off as much as I think I do
Seriously, good guys do exist, i'm dating one
He treats me like a princess, tells me on a daily basis that I'm beautiful, tells me I'm the best thing that has happened to him, takes me for walks along the river at sunset, he'* trustworthy, has a great sense of humor... etc etc etc....
And it'* not just the words. It'* the way he looks at me, and touches me, and introduces me to his friends "And this is my wonderful girlfriend Christy" (to which most of his friends smile and say, "hey, i've heard about you!"). Oh yeah, and when I told him about this experience, he said, and I quote, "Awww, see, I told you I'm not the only one who thinks that!"
Seriously, chin up, the dating game gets better.