Okay, so there are definitely some good guys out there...
02-17-2005, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Princess Jeanie
Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
...when I'm proven wrong (which will never happen) then I'll change my mind....
Seriously, I get the feeling that you really are going to refute everything I say. Which is fine, whatever. Just remember, you life isn't the only one that'* hit bumps, we've all be through crap...it'* all about you attitude.
You'd have to understand what I'm going through to understand where I'm comming from.....
02-18-2005, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
Originally Posted by Garb
i dont want to chime in when im not wanted, but sixty, cheer up! trust me i know whats its like to be forgotten about with no reason why. three years later i still wonder. but the fact is you have to try and be happy and not dwelll on it. youll never get a reason, i guarentee it. its sad about that but life sucks ya know?
the bottom line is, guys are more attracted to girls with confidence and screw the past ********. if they werent even decent enough to give you a reason, then whos gives a ***^ what they have to say? forget them, be happy and cheer up. losing deadbeats like them is a move for the positive not the negative!
the bottom line is, guys are more attracted to girls with confidence and screw the past ********. if they werent even decent enough to give you a reason, then whos gives a ***^ what they have to say? forget them, be happy and cheer up. losing deadbeats like them is a move for the positive not the negative!
Personally I could give a crap about the past boyfriends...well except for Matt..he'* my buddy...but other than that...I don't even care.....But I guess I have a pretty crappy outlook on life seeing as how the past year and a half as gone for me.....I still stand firm on the "no good guys" theory...when I'm proven wrong (which will never happen) then I'll change my mind....
I used to think the same thing about girls too actually that there weren't any good ones out there. The reason I thought so was because I was always the 'shy' kid. When I finally got up enough nerve to finally start dating a girl and getting close to her she ends up telling me she wants to date this other guy instead. Get this, the reason she wanted to date the other guy was because I would not do 'it' with her. (sex for those of you who don't know what 'it' is that I'm referring to.) Basically, I had strong feelings for her and she promises she'd never hurt me, then she dates this other guy (who happenED to be my friend). She took every opportunity to brag about how 'good' he was and making me feel like crap. It just really is not cool when you have feelings like that about someone, then they just ditch you for a reason like that. I swear, all of the girls I have ever gotten close to have just wanted to do that with me. I'm more of the type of person that wants to have an intimate relationship, not just a sexual one. That'* probably the biggest reason I'm just waiting to date until I'm older. All the girls I know are either just looking to get laid, or they're just not a good person I would want to associate with. anyway, way too much information to be giving on a car forum. I'm probably going to regret this post later on. ah well.
02-18-2005, 12:09 AM
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heart felt post custom. good guys are out there, weve all been hurt its just no reason for me to say there are no good girls out there! i love my current girlfriend, i have for over a year and a half now. sure shes a pain in my butt, but that dosent make her bad, gotta give poeple a chance! it IS all about attitude!
02-18-2005, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Custom88
Originally Posted by Twister97
Man, chicks are evil. But NOT evil enough to make me switch teams
at some point a good one will recognize me fer who i am...but hopefully after i get a 100x200ft garage with a loft apartment in the corner...so she cant redecorate too much...lol
"but honey!, i needed the bathtub to rebuild the trans...." LOL
i'm just too much of a hick at heart!
02-18-2005, 12:46 AM
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The concept of 'good guys' or 'good girls' is highly subjective. It'* well open to interpretation. How come so many girls I meet always end up with the ********? Is that their idea of a 'good guy'? That'* one thing I will never understand. The saying 'nice guys finish last,' has significant meaning in many cases that I have witnessed. Sure, there are girls out there who do go for the generalized 'nice guy,' and that is great. Why is that so hard to find though? The same goes the other way around. Many girls have this mindset that views all guys as jerks, which turns away much opportunity. I have met many great girls in my life, and I am friends with many of them. Will things ever go further? Maybe that could be so, but it'* highly unlikely in my case. I guess I am not making a very clear-cut point. I'm just raising questions which are sometimes nearly impossible to answer.
There'* my philosophy for tonight.
There'* my philosophy for tonight.
02-18-2005, 01:16 AM
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I don't know...
I'm a good guy.
At least that'* what the voices tell me...
I'm a good guy.
At least that'* what the voices tell me...
02-18-2005, 07:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Sol
. How come so many girls I meet always end up with the ********? Is that their idea of a 'good guy'? .
Usually the ******** have the money and the car and bla bla bla so most girls go after that because they are gold digging wh****. If there is enough money involved a girl will let you slap her around and treat her like crap forever....it'* a little personality glitch a lot of girls have..... :?
