Well this will be the last "update" of how stuff stands between her and me.
I took Geoff'* Lumina for the weekend, and on an instantaneous decision at 11:30 friday night, decided I would make the 630ish mile round trip down to PA where I went to HS. My intent was to not even bother the girl but just chill with my friends. Ended up calling her saturday night jsut to inform her that I was in town (figured it would be better if she heard from me directly and not through the "grape vine". So that was a voicemail, because the bitch she was hanging out with that night stole her phone when she saw I was calling. (I'm NOT a fan of the girl she was with hence the harsh language)
Anywho, sunday morning we got together went to a local elementary school play grouind(nice day and they had swings), and talked. She'* still pissed at me (understandably) but as she said herself "time heals everything" so now its just however long it takes her to move on from my stupidity. Downside is that her mother read my email, and told her father. his response to finding out was "if he ever steps foot in this house again I am going to rip his arms off and beat him to death with them" So I guess I will never see the inside of her house again
So I guess all in all its good news.
Weekend was a blast anyways so I guess that makes it worth the large cost to go down there.