so heres my dilemma:
we have three TV'* in our house. one in the dining room/living room (whatever), one in our bedroom, and one in the "kids" room (no, we dont have a kid. but its where we put everything for kids that we get). the one in the kids room doesnt quite work (im going to fix it, but im lazy).
today is nancys birthday. we had our evening planned, we went out to eat, shopping (i was an angel - offered my opinions whenever possible and carried her stuff like a good puppet), and so on, then came home. we were going to spend the evening playing a game together. a computer game, but time together nonetheless (her choice of activities, not mine). when we got home, there was a message on our answering machine from a mutual friend that wanted to come over and play another computer game. she immediately called him and said yes, come on over, and spend the night. so now theyre in the computer room playing this game (Guild Wars) which i dont enjoy. i have a laptop, though. i can go into the room with them and lay beside her in the floor and do whatever on the laptop. just to keep myself around so were still spending time together. but should i?
i make decisions every day, and its my job as her fiance to try to predict as well as possible how every decision i make will affect her. and if i stay in the living room, im making the decision to watch the TV instead of be with her. but i dont want to be in the way. its possible that shes tired of me and thats why she immediately took him up on his offer to play guild wars. Or, its possible she just wanted to play guild wars. so thats my dilemma.