Originally Posted by popatim
Having been where your GF is now, I can sympathize. What we did was talk about splitting up. Obviously we're still together but the talk helped alot. It helped me see her side and she see mine. Things weren't great but they were endurable.
Another thing to keep in mind is kids grow up and sooner or later they will move out.
I knew it would be a difficult thing for her to accept once my son moved in, but all the while I was told I have her support 100%, but things go differently I guess when it actually takes place.
She feels that my son dont respect her and I believe its because of the "Your not my mom" factor, but I told her that she will have to step up her parental role a bit more to gain his respect as far as listening to her.
We talked, and talked and I did get to see her side, but for the most part, im hoping that everything will get back on track which it seems to be doing already.
My son has allot of issues that until now were not being dealt with. I got him in counseling, and hes taking Aderall for ADHD and Prozac for depression. How many 12 year olds are on Prozac?
Anyways, im off on the right foot and I hope things go for the better. SO far so good!!