I think it gets better over time. Katie played soccer for 3 years. Keep in mind she'* respectful, but not everyone on the team was the first year.
I was just talking with Katie'* soccer coach in the parking lot last night as we were leaving work, and he said it got easier with time. The third year was the best, and I'm betting it was because after 3 seasons with the same coach, they finally all learned respect for him.
Kinda a coincidence that I ran into him yesterday, talked about this very thing, and then this morning, here'* Pmom ranting.