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Old 08-18-2004, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted by scottydl
Originally Posted by vital49
It paid off in the end, though....I went over [to Australia] at the end of her stay and proposed. The rest is history...
*sniff* That'* beautiful, man!
Thanks! LOL. Now I need the Kleenex too....
Old 08-18-2004, 03:42 PM
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3 years difference??psssh... but at least EVERYONE IN BC knows you like being a "prey" to a "cougar"


Jokes.. 3 years is fiddlesticks.. and way down the road.. you'll both sag the same time ( I mean age ) hahahahaha.. thats the way I see it.. so 3 years is nothing..

The Distance can be a curse and a blessing.

Firstly..Like mentioned already.. you and her have to sit down and figure out if it'* in BOTH your interest to continue this relationship

Secondly.. like mentioned again.. this will give the both of you space to still do your thing ( hang out with your friends.. post ***** here.. whatever ).. AND when you do see each other.. there will be less time to nit pick and kill each other.. just less talk and more action * Come on.. one of MANY of men'* fantasy *.. Seriously.. you're both young.. there'* so much you both will experience and see and do.. don't be so quick to get OLD

Third.. it will test your trust and devotion.. AND it makes it easier to spy.. I mean make surprise visit with roses to say you missed them.. and see what they're doing when they think you're not around.. ( cause obviously of the distance and thus their guards will be down bout gettin caught ) and not sayin she is or will.. but if she got caught.. better now then a.) later on after you invested more of your time into it b.) Wondering down the road about "Wat if we did.. " and " wat would've been" if you never went for it

The MOST important part no matter how serious.. fortune cookie style.. our own personal experience blah blah blah yadda yadda we say here in BC.

What DO YOU AND HER FEEL FOR EACH OTHER AND WANT ???
If you do not have any doubts about her ( minus this moving thing for what.. not even a year?? ) and her for you.. then go for it.. if you have doubts, tiffs, about her now.. don't waste your time.. I take relationship kinda like job ( due to personal experience ).. I have 3 months probation period.. if there'* one thing that bugs me about them within then.. it'* C-YA !!!! and NEXT !!!
Old 08-18-2004, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Drifter420
3 years difference??psssh... but at least EVERYONE IN BC knows you like being a "prey" to a "cougar"


Jokes.. 3 years is fiddlesticks.. and way down the road.. you'll both sag the same time ( I mean age ) hahahahaha.. thats the way I see it.. so 3 years is nothing..

The Distance can be a curse and a blessing.

Firstly..Like mentioned already.. you and her have to sit down and figure out if it'* in BOTH your interest to continue this relationship

Secondly.. like mentioned again.. this will give the both of you space to still do your thing ( hang out with your friends.. post ***** here.. whatever ).. AND when you do see each other.. there will be less time to nit pick and kill each other.. just less talk and more action * Come on.. one of MANY of men'* fantasy *.. Seriously.. you're both young.. there'* so much you both will experience and see and do.. don't be so quick to get OLD

Third.. it will test your trust and devotion.. AND it makes it easier to spy.. I mean make surprise visit with roses to say you missed them.. and see what they're doing when they think you're not around.. ( cause obviously of the distance and thus their guards will be down bout gettin caught ) and not sayin she is or will.. but if she got caught.. better now then a.) later on after you invested more of your time into it b.) Wondering down the road about "Wat if we did.. " and " wat would've been" if you never went for it

The MOST important part no matter how serious.. fortune cookie style.. our own personal experience blah blah blah yadda yadda we say here in BC.

What DO YOU AND HER FEEL FOR EACH OTHER AND WANT ???
If you do not have any doubts about her ( minus this moving thing for what.. not even a year?? ) and her for you.. then go for it.. if you have doubts, tiffs, about her now.. don't waste your time.. I take relationship kinda like job ( due to personal experience ).. I have 3 months probation period.. if there'* one thing that bugs me about them within then.. it'* C-YA !!!! and NEXT !!!
Well said! (and mildly disturbing)
Old 08-18-2004, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Miami
Well said! (and mildly disturbing)
but being honest.. and simply havin a different perspective.. it'* not as disturbing as listening to Tamara and her girlfriend gossip.. Things I didn't want to know about women.. and things that has scarred me.. I thought men were bad anywho. going ..
Old 08-18-2004, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Drifter420
Things I didn't want to know about women.. and things that has scarred me.. I thought men were bad
You can't possibly be saying us girls are bad.
Old 08-18-2004, 10:05 PM
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Naw, but yer cut for straight from Lucifers cloth



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Old 08-19-2004, 03:53 AM
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Originally Posted by opensourceguy
your bonne is pretty *pets her* oops, what are we talking about again?
this guy fits in well

John, I once turned down a guy with the same 3 year difference BECAUSE of age, and I've spent a long time kicking myself for it.

Age isnt a factor.

Also, the very best relationship of my LIFE was with a guy who was 6 hours away from me. We cared about each other very much, and there was a strong degree of trust, plus it was comforting knowing that it wasn't just a physical attraction

--Christine
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