Not at all Arron, because there is no white curse :P
And in reply to Wrens post, Part of the attraction is that were totally honest with eachother and were not trumping up to make ourselves appear to be something were not. We share allot of common interests and we seem to be very compatiable with eachother.
Leslie, you are a really great person and for the most part I hope that this works out. While making that statement, I also know its going to take quite a bit of time and allot of work to make it happen. Time will tell.