Well...now were back together...kinda.... i dont get her, but we will just have to make it work. Thanks Jossue for your concern.
Spiderman was a good movie, maybe cuz my cousin and i had half the theatre laughung at our stupid comments we made during the movie.

That always makes for a fun time.
Well, glad to hear you're back together...kinda
Just be careful, as I would bet there is more drama in our future.
Of course, I'm married, so drama is a normal part of life. :P

not to sound like a dick do not get back with her. it will just give her more chance to screw around on you and have you accept her back. Do you want that I know I wouldn't I am not trying to be a dick but just an observation from my own life. honestly give yourself and herr some time to get youselves right and if it works out great if not it was not meant to be

If you'd have been at the same theater as me, you wouldn't have had any more girl troubles because I'd have killed you. I am a strong believer of "Shut up and watch the movie, dumass!"

Note to self....do not go to MN.

I'm on the side of gojo. Dude, not to be too harsh, but not only does this girl appear to me to be using you.... some of your posts have come across a little.... how to say... obsessive, sometimes even a bit scary.

Love hurts. Nazareth said so back in the 70s, it'* not changed since then. I think your mental well being will deteriorate if you keep letting her play you (and it'* just my opinion that this is what'* happening, take it for what it'* worth).

You're a good person with a good heart... unfortunaltely... this is the type of personality that often gets burnt. Move on to someone who deserves you.

finch is right and not to be harsh I have been there and did that and well I got screwed out of 2 cars and well a good chunk of money and time. Take this as not critisism but as experience talking. don't be a doormat. The way it sound she is using you as a doormat or a sugardaddy. Dude you are young I thought I needed someone at your age too and didn't listen to the older ppl who told me to not do it. I am sure this is going to go in one ear out the other but you are young and concentrate on school and or your job promotion. If it is meant to be she will stick by your side through thick and thin and not flake on you. lastly I am 23 and divorced if I had to do it again I would just have fun but not make any commitments till now, just something to think about

Well no offense but this ex GF sounds like a bitch.

Tell her to go find a boyfriend in a gas station in a bad part of town, A nice guy who drives a low rider and calls himself Pimp daddy slap-a-hoe.

(Jumping on the bandwagon. . .)
So you're back together. Okay, make the most of it, and best wishes.

But I'd put heavy odds that this isn't going to last long-term. And here'* my advice to you, for the next time she leaves: Tell her goodbye. Tell her to stop calling you. Move on.

Years later, you'll realize that you were sticking with her because you were insecure, and having her around made you feel vastly more secure. But you'll also look at how much time you wasted on someone who made a hobby out of jerking you around, when you could have been making memories with someone who you actually appreciated.

That said, it'* admirable that you are compassionate for someone you care about, while they're going through medical problems. Medical problems of any sort are, I think, the most frightening thing that people ever face, because we have such little control over them. Having a friend around to listen can be a great help, when a person is struggling to understand and deal with medical issues.

But all that aside, good relationships are built on a basis of a healthy respect for each other, and it seriously looks like she doesn't have a healthy respect for you. And that'* why I'd pass on this one.

That'* why I love Drive in movies, well one of the reasons.........


But back to the main topic, getting back with her is your call bro, just remeber "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice........" be carefull