My aunt was found wandering down the main road through Winnipeg, she is so young, only 53, and it is has hit the family hard. My uncle refused to leave her alone, and refused any help for the longest time, until my mother went and helped out. Their children helped out as best as they could, but they have their own families, now one of my cousins, her daughter has leukemia
So in the end, my uncle had to face the fact that my aunt is no longer the woman he married and loves with all his heart, and he put her in a facility where she is under constant supervision and is well cared for. He visits her everyday, but at least now he is sleeping and taking care of himself.
It is so hard, to see your loved ones slip away.