broken heart rant
03-22-2006, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
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Sorry to hear Nick..
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
Sqela, sorry about the situation. It sounds like you wanted more out of the friendship than she did. That happens. In every relationship there is always one person that cares more. She didn't handle things very maturely but then again if it wasn't an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so what is the proper protocol? Relationships are a biotch and you just have to be the best person you can be and treat the other person the way you would like to be treated. It is better that you found out how she is before it blew into a full fledged relationship. Don't pet the sweaty things..... I mean don't sweat the petty things.
She just wasn't a "quality" type of girl and one day you will find the one meant for you.felt sooooooooooo good deleting her from my buddy list. now i just need to make an adjustment to myspace top 8
and the below clip picked me up a little
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/flash/sheblockedme.html
03-22-2006, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
Originally Posted by BillBoost37
Sorry to hear Nick..
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
03-22-2006, 04:22 PM
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My perspective on love/relationships has been severely jaded by one too many ex-girlfriends who insist on being so selfish that they ruin the best thing they ever had in their life. All I will say is enjoy life, enjoy the things you like to do, the friends and people you care about, and have fun while you're young. The right one will come along, whether it is in 2 years or 10 years. As long as she'* that 'special' one, you'll know it and it wouldn't matter how long it took to find her.
Until then, have fun and don't get down about girls like that. Those types of girls are not worth stressing over.
Until then, have fun and don't get down about girls like that. Those types of girls are not worth stressing over.
03-22-2006, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
Originally Posted by BillBoost37
Sorry to hear Nick..
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
Sqela, sorry about the situation. It sounds like you wanted more out of the friendship than she did. That happens. In every relationship there is always one person that cares more. She didn't handle things very maturely but then again if it wasn't an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so what is the proper protocol? Relationships are a biotch and you just have to be the best person you can be and treat the other person the way you would like to be treated. It is better that you found out how she is before it blew into a full fledged relationship. Don't pet the sweaty things..... I mean don't sweat the petty things.
She just wasn't a "quality" type of girl and one day you will find the one meant for you.
The hurt does go away eventually man, Boost might be right about the torture part, but the relief is knowing that one day you'll look back and be glad it didn't work out.
Originally Posted by BillBoost37
Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
Originally Posted by BillBoost37
Sorry to hear Nick..
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.
03-22-2006, 04:40 PM
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**** sucks man.....been having pretty close to the same issue with a girl right now myself. But I managed to salvage a friendship in the end. We just got back from the bar, and we both would much have each other in each others life'* as at least friends than nothing at all. Which works for me granted i'd like something more....but she has an abandonment problem. Everything'* different and a fucked up deal but yet all the same.
You'll pull through. I'm doing the best I can..........I know deep down that she wants more.....but after a nasty 5 1/2 yr realationship.......she can't handle more....especially from a guy like me that can't possibly do something bad to hurt her.
You'll pull through. I'm doing the best I can..........I know deep down that she wants more.....but after a nasty 5 1/2 yr realationship.......she can't handle more....especially from a guy like me that can't possibly do something bad to hurt her.
03-22-2006, 04:40 PM
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I like to think evil thoughts about my ex'*. It always seems to brighten my day. You know- picturing their face as they awaken just before the car gets submerged and they are bound and gagged and can't do a thing about it. Or knocking them out and putting them in a deep well in the middle of no where. I know lots of places to hide bodies.
Not that I would ever do such a thing
but I would think about it.
Not that I would ever do such a thing
but I would think about it.
03-22-2006, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
I like to think evil thoughts about my ex'*. It always seems to brighten my day. You know- picturing their face as they awaken just before the car gets submerged and they are bound and gagged and can't do a thing about it. Or knocking them out and putting them in a deep well in the middle of no where. I know lots of places to hide bodies.
Not that I would ever do such a thing but I would think about it.
Not that I would ever do such a thing
but I would think about it.
Latent anger is bad for you! It tears you up. Just another way that they can "get you"
03-22-2006, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by sqela
and the below clip picked me up a little
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/flash/sheblockedme.html
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/flash/sheblockedme.html
Anyways, like they say, time heals all things and like someone else said, go out and have some fun. It really does help.
03-23-2006, 03:58 AM
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Originally Posted by jwakamud
let me just add... i hate women. love my gf, but when she dumps me because shes cheating on me, ill hate her too.
, wow, I think we were kind of trying to cheer someone up here........ 