well my friends haven't been much help and i consider you guys and gals like family here. And since the little heartbreaker doesn't know about bc i'd figure its safe to post this. so anyway to make a long story short

1) i met girl
2)we talk for a few months and become relly good friends
3)she blocks me on aim
4)find out she'* talking to other dude
5)her away message "don't leave a message unless you my boo" "luv ya babe"
6)i look for glue/tape to fix my broken heart
7)can't find any
deside to cry about it on bc :(

I'm sorry, man. Really. Us girls can be like that. Sometimes chicks have guy friends that they really do care about, then they find a "boyfriend" and instead of carefully drawing lines and keeping in contact with guyfriends they just drop off the face of the earth (and aren't always nice about it). I'm sure that doesn't help, so let'* just stick with the "i'm sorry about that".

I don't know much about AIM since i've never had it on any of my computers. I know its an online chat and am assuming "block" means you can't send her messages anymore. If this is the case she is an immature little bitch. You are WAY to go good of a person to worry about a bitch like that. Did you ever meet her in person?

Oh ya, a Litre of Smirnoff Black Cherry is a delicous memory destroyer.

it does help and im glad other people see where im coming from.

Sorry man it happens to the best of us...

I just broke up with a girl that I was dating for 6 months and seeing for about a year. She was one of the reasons I actually moved back to Michigan and I actually thought that she could be the 'one'. But now that we are not together... It def. helps to meet new people and just get her off your mind. The best thing to do is to get rid/delete her phone #, her AIM SN, anything else you have that relates to her. Girls love knowing that they are on your mind having a hard time getting over them (even though you guys are not together). Ever since I have had the best of times just going to parties and bars and just meeting new people/girls. But even I have to admit that when nothing is going on and I'm by myself I get lonely and miss the days of hanging/talking with my ex.

Also don't chase after girls let them chase after you. You will have less heartbreak...

Sorry to hear Nick..

The torture of it is knowing it won't be the last time. Carry on the best you can and it will get easier.

It doesn't get easier. I'm surprised you said that Boost.

Sqela, sorry about the situation. It sounds like you wanted more out of the friendship than she did. That happens. In every relationship there is always one person that cares more. She didn't handle things very maturely but then again if it wasn't an actual boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so what is the proper protocol? Relationships are a biotch and you just have to be the best person you can be and treat the other person the way you would like to be treated. It is better that you found out how she is before it blew into a full fledged relationship. Don't pet the sweaty things..... I mean don't sweat the petty things. She just wasn't a "quality" type of girl and one day you will find the one meant for you.

Sorry to hear than and I feel for you. You didnt need someone like that in your life anyway. Could have been worse for you.