Leslie, your in luck. I did some searching for some parts near you, matching colours.
I'm sure you can make it out ahead in this one by doing the work yourself or with the assistance of your coworkers and put the remainder in paying off the car
There are a lot of SSEi'* in yards, even some white ones within a few hours of you (i checked around on car-part.
Should be no problem finding a white bumper and just swap it on assuming theres no subframe damage.
Taillights are often on ebay for cheap.
I'm sure you can get it all fixed for 1/3 of the estimate if you fetch the parts yourself.