Matt, screw the car. Go take care of your Dad. If its one thing I've learned over the last six months, its the untangibles in the accident that "hurt" the most. My thoughts are with you and your family. Make sure your dad goes to see a doctor. I thought I was just going to be "sore" after my last accident. I wound up barely able to move my left arm for 4 days.
I know I'm out here in NY, but if there'* anything any way, no matter how miniscule it is that I can do to help you, ask and I'll do it man.
1995 SSEi - Totaled on 6/6/6 by some jerk who drank at 9am. WEAR YOUR SEATBELT! It saved my life and it can save yours too.