Well usually I wouldn't put gold wheels on a car with a lot of chrome/silver, but Aviator has gold pin-striping on his car which will tie the wheels in better. It'* not really a girl thing, just more of an artistic type thing I guess.
I have no silver on my car except for the lip on my gold wheels, and of course you know I like it. A little silver with gold is fine. And if Aviator didn't like the look of gold wheels with his silver trim, we could always paint that red or black like an SSE'* trim.