Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
try to make a compromise where you both get what you want. You always need a backup vehicle in case something happens to one of them. Were theres a will theres a way.
Exactly. Perfect situation for a compromise to be reached here. Both items are useful and can be beneficial, but neither is necessarily a necessity.
Personally, my wife and I try to work it to where if I want something, i.e. mods for the bonnie, she gets an equal amount for whatever she wants. It'* worked for 5 years now.
One year, I wanted a motorcycle, and she wanted a very expensive camera with zoom lens and the works. So we both had to wait until we had the money, then we both got it. Compromise. :P