I GOT IT!!!!
I took the driver'* side hush panel out and was searching around for a switch of any kind. I looked for a good 20 minutes and I could not see any. Everything under there looked like it was from the factory. I almost gave up, I put the panel back on. I took the dash panel out because the LED was mounted in it. I traced the wires going from the LED (red and blue twisted together) and they got lost in a bundle of wires.
I looked and looked to where the LED wires were going since they had to lead to this switch I thought. I saw them go all the way up the the firewall and near a little black box with a 12 pin conncetor (still looked stock). I read the fine print on this box and came across the word "Valet."
I was able to pull the box forward since it wasn't screwed on to anything and it was in fact the AutoMate system, "Model 401."
I FINALLY found a black push button switch wrapped up with the massive wire harness! I fooled around with it with the ignition on, but couldn't get it. I realized though that I didn't have the car ON, I just had it in the run position. So I started the car, pushed the button, turned off the car, LED was still on
I pushed the button again, LED went off. I shut the door, pressed lock, and it worked!!!
Sorry for the story!
Thanks Jeff and Randy! You guys saved the friggin day. I never would have figured this out myself. I really appreciate your help.