Well do you have an aftermarket alarm already. If you have an extra channel you could rig all your lights to one switch and use that for the extra channel in the remote. Most alarms are 4 channel remotes. If they can pop a trunk or make your window go on or turn your heated seats on, I'm sure your lighting push button can be rigged up.
About those remote fog lights, Almost ordered a Hella set like that for my girls accord, ended up getting a different hella kit with a extra switch I put under the steering colum.
Also you could probably wire it up to all flash with the lock/unlock evertime you do something, Wire things into the parking lights, thinking that'* were I wired my Eyes into, didn't want a switch installed.
And last like the last guy why?
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