I'm not clear on what happened to your cigar lighter...
>> Also about a month ago my cigarette lighter (which didn't have a holder in it) turned on and I couldn't get it off. The lighter got really hot before I stuck a pencil in it to turn it off. Now my interior lights won't turn on whenever I open the door and when I turned my ignition to have just the radio on my windows won't roll down. <<
If you had a lighter with no holder, are you speaking of the **** that is used to pull it out of its socket?
BUT, I doubt it is related to the other items anyway.
For the interior lights not opening when you open your door, check fuse #2 (15A) in the Relay Center, and the relay in position F in the Relay Center. The Relay Center is behind the right-hand side of the Instrument Panel.