ok, the first thing is, look on the side of the doors. If it has a SSEi badge, thats a dead giveaway as to what it is.
Seriously, the foglights on the SE'* are lower and off to the sides, like my car in my sig. The SSE'* and SSEi'* have the foglights more towards the center and higher in the bumper.
And the HUD (heads up display) is just like in a fighter pilot'* helmet. It'* displayed in your line of sight on the windsheild so that you can get your speed and other info without having to look down at your dash.
Give it a few weeks here, and you'll be amazed at what you learn.