Combining what Fuddyduddy121 told us and some other info here is my plan of attack: the colors coming off my stick combined with what they become are:
Red - Dk Blue - Set
Yellow - Blk - Resume
Lt Blue - Pink - 12 V+
Green - Grey - On/Off
The plan is to check resistance across the Lt Blue to Green off the stick with a multimeter. If I turn the switch on and get no signal then I assume the switch is bad and get creative in replacing it
time to add more shiny buttons and switched to the car.