I found it. It'* the gasket. Seems to be leaking in two places total. I took a peak at the leak and wiped the tranny fluid off the pan and the gasket (which is sticking out) and watched the pools form in two spots on the tranny.
She'* taking it tomorrow to get a flush, so they should replace the gasket and filter with that. I told her to throw some of the fluid she bought tonight in before she takes it down there though, just to make sure. The tranny doesn't seem to be too damaged if at all. After some fluid gets in there, it seems to shift fine.
The girl asked me what'* the best way to keep the car a long time (after I noticed her oil pan had HUGE, HUGE dents in it. I don't know if it'* the previous owner, the car had over 140k on it when she bought it, or if it'* because she takes bumps a bit too hard, which I tell her not to) and I told her to take care of the maintainance and get regular oil changes. I then asked when the last time was that she had an oil change.... July 2005
I'm hoping this will make her realize that she needs to take better care of the thing. Especially considering I chastised her for not getting the oil changed